It’s strange how easy it is to lose pieces of ourselves without even realizing it. One scroll at a time. One harmless reel after another. We laugh, we double-tap, we share — until little by little, the things that once made us uncomfortable start to feel normal. It doesn’t happen overnight. It’s subtle — almost…
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The Heart’s Pages
I came to the realization that writing is my way of showing my heart’s pages to people who have never learned how to read. There are moments in life when spoken words simply fall short — when even the most sincere intentions cannot bridge the distance between what you feel and what others can understand….
The Cycle We Choose to Break
Sometimes, pain doesn’t end where it begins. It travels. It changes hands, it changes faces—but it remains the same pain, recycled in new ways. What was once done to us can easily become what we do to others if we never pause to heal what’s been broken inside. Many of us grew up with words…
Life Worthy of God’s Kingdom
Our one and only simple goal is to live a life worthy of God’s Kingdom— and yet, somehow, we drift. We wake up meaning well, but somewhere between the noise and the need to keep up, our hearts forget. We start collecting things that don’t last. We hold on to offenses that harden us. We…
You Don’t Have To…
You Don’t Have to Carry It Forever. Just because someone projected their hurt onto you doesn’t mean you have to carry it the rest of your life. Sometimes pain passes through people like a storm that doesn’t know where to land. It finds the closest heart—often the kindest one—and pours itself there. And before you…
The Weight of What We Do
There are people in this world who can do harmful things and still move through life as if nothing happened — as if words didn’t wound, trust wasn’t broken, or hearts weren’t affected. It happens in families, between parents and children, among siblings, in marriages, friendships, and workplaces. Pain doesn’t always come from strangers; sometimes,…
Mushi
Mushi: The Quiet Power of Being Seen In Japanese, there is a word that carries both sting and subtle wisdom: mushi (無視). It means “to ignore” or “to disregard,” and in its passive form, mushi-sareta, it captures the aching reality of being ignored completely. We’ve all felt it—the sudden absence of acknowledgment, the silence that…
Grace: Freedom, Not a Free Pass
I told myself I was going to take a break from writing for a little while, but after this morning’s sermon, I couldn’t help but put these words down first. Our pastor mentioned hyper-grace (among many important things) in his sermon this morning. At first, the word sounds complicated, but at its heart, it points…
The Quiet Gift of Intuition
They say people often make intuitive judgments first and only later come up with logical reasons to explain them. At first glance, that might sound like a flaw in human thinking — as though we are led by feelings rather than reason. But what if it’s not a weakness at all? What if intuition is…
Fear of God
When the Fear of God Fades… It seems that in today’s world, fewer and fewer hearts pause to consider God. We scroll, we post, we share, we chase—and in the noise, the awe of Him becomes faint. Technology has made it easier to hide, to justify, and to follow the crowd. What was once whispered…
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